Thursday, March 10, 2011

Why Hugs are special .... ???



How often do you get a hug ... ???

When was the last time you got a hug from someone whom do you felt they are special to you ??
After getting a hug, do u generally ask yourself - "Do I deserve this Hug", "What special I did, so that I got this hug", "What was the reason for this hug", "What relationship I'm sharing with the person who is hugging me, what is the name of this relationship, ...."?????

So many questions .... Is it worth asking so many questions?? Useless .... Right ...??? maybe for some people ...

But not for some ....

I don't think anyone thinks like this ... Some may do, but today why the hell I'm writing all these things. Does it really make sense. I don't know. That's right, I really don't know. Maybe I'm getting a bit philosophical but why this topic. There are so many good things to share but today I just thought that this topic needs to be discussed because there are reasons for anything different you are trying to do in this mortal life. Something strikes and then things pop-up into your mind.

"Hug" is what. Nothing or everything. It's a physical intimacy. You clung yourself into someone else. You close your arms into some other person's neck, chest or waist. It is done not only between two people but also group of people. Definition of hug can no one define. It depends on that particular situation. Generally, a hug indicates love, affection, friendship, familiarity, sometimes non- familiarity, etc. A hug can indicate many things. It maybe an indication of support, emotion-sharing, comfort, consolation, cheering up, happiness, joy, love, and there are so many reasons. It never ends.

A hug can be practiced privately or publicly. It's a great thing. It makes you how familiar you are to the person who is hugging you. Not only that it makes you feel special. At least the moment becomes special. It'd be cherished in future. Not many people have the luck of getting a hug. Some deserves, some get hug without deserving, some embrace hug without getting a positive remark from it's opponent.

"Hugging has been proven to have health benefits. One study has shown that hugs increase levels of oxytocin and reduce blood pressure." Well this line has been taken from the internet. Wanted to extend the benefits of hug.


But something I have to say. When you get hugged by someone, it really makes a great difference. You should feel how special you are or how the person who is hugging is special to you. On such occasion, like when you are getting hugged from whom you have expected the most in your life, you feel you have got hold of the whole world. The moment becomes so special. You feel like stopping the time. You feel like 'this should be the end of life' or 'is this a new beginning.' You don't feel like the moment to stop ever and forever. You feel like you have got everything in your life.

"Oh God! How lucky I'm! I'm so very much alive to experience such a moment which I'm gonna cherish my entire life." This kind of thoughts or a bit sort of, things should have been popped up if you ever have undergone such a wonderful experience. It's a great feeling. If you have experienced it, you should be unable to express it by words or by any other media.

There are so many things to tell and share but as I mentioned earlier, these things cannot be elaborated so much or rather it should not be. Everyone should experience it. Hug people.It affects more in a positive way.

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